Hi, I’m Sioban.

Entrepreneur, Community Creator,
Lifestyle Brand & Mentor.

I help others pursue their passions.

Pisces sun, Taurus moon,
& Aries rising.

Currently:

Reading : A New Earth – Eckhart Tolle

Living In : San Diego, CA

Singing : Foolproof – Hayden James, Gorgon City, Nat Dunn

Listening To : The GaryVee Audio Experience

Favorites.

Color : Red

Flower : Roses

City : New York City

Drink: Champagne

Workout: Weight Lifting & Yoga

Self Care: Bubble Bath

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Lately I’ve been learning how to truly accept my

Lately I’ve been learning how to truly accept myself. Accept that I am not and will never be perfect. That showing up without a mask is the only way people can truly love me.

The more I’ve gotten to know myself, the more I realize I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. And I’ve always been scared to explore myself and my desires or be my true self around others because of that.

Recently I’ve been practicing vulnerability. Sharing thoughts, feelings and ideas regardless of what people might think or say. Yes, I’ve encountered people who aren’t into it..but I’ve also connected with people who fall more in love with me simply because I am who I am. They love listening to me talk about the things I’m passionate about, or learning something new from me.

It’s been a very empowering experience and has encouraged me to embrace all the things that interest me, no matter how “weird” they might seem. I’m connecting MORE with people I resonate with and less with people I don’t.

Anyways, a little life update for you. Learning to be myself more and more everyday.

The things in life that make me feel most whole ar

The things in life that make me feel most whole are the things that most people reject.

People don’t like that I’m quiet in the mornings. People don’t like that I want to be alone most of the time. People don’t like that I’m spiritual. People don’t like my simplicity.

I don’t view myself as better than anyone but I constantly meet people who want to prove they are better than me, “fix” me, or label me as weak. When I’m judged in this way, I make myself smaller to fit the image they created of me, out of desperation for acceptance and love. I take advice I don’t believe in, I don’t speak my mind, I wear myself out trying to keep up with their life. I end up proving them right.

Eventually something gives and I’m left to re-build my inner world alone.

I’m learning that people who are triggered by me will be triggered regardless. I want to surround myself with others who can accept me as I am and let me be. Who are open to learning from me as much as I’m open to learning from them.

I’m not weak, I’m not wrong, there is nothing here to fix. I am simply whole.

I get asked a lot why I forgive people so easily.

I get asked a lot why I forgive people so easily. The answer is this:

Nothing is ever black and white. You’ll never know the whole story of people. You can waste days, months, years trying to figure someone out. Or…you can accept them as they are, where they’re at in this moment. It is not your job to change someone, serve karma, or prove your worth. The way we treat the people around us is a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves. We’re all on our own journeys of self discovery. You cannot judge someone for not having gone through their lessons yet. It’s through hurting others and being hurt ourselves that we learn these lessons and grow.

I do not hate anyone who has done me wrong, I thank them because they are the reason I am who I am today.

This day last year I made the decision to quit my

This day last year I made the decision to quit my job, sell everything I own and drive out to San Diego with $5,000 to my name.

I slept on an air mattress for a month because my new mattress was stolen. I DoorDashed to earn money because I couldn’t find a job. I spent Thanksgiving alone because I couldn’t afford to go home. I spent my birthday watching a movie at home because I had no friends.

I’m not telling you these things for pity. I’m telling you these things because they were the catalyst for immense growth.

I remember DoorDashing one Friday night and waiting to pick up an order at a cool San Diego restaurant. I saw all these people out with their friends eating, drinking, laughing together and I thought to myself “I can’t wait for that to be me one day.”

I had the vision. It wasn’t an option for me, it was the destination.

Now here we are, one year later. I’ve transformed a once empty apartment into my sanctuary. I’m waking up everyday excited to grow in my career. I’ve reached a point financially where I can travel again (one of my favorite things to do). And I have a solid group of friends who show up for me when I need it most.

Moral of the story: the best things in life don’t come easy but damn are they worth it.

If you have the strength to let it in, you have th

If you have the strength to let it in, you have the strength to let it go.

Loving yourself means walking away when you’re not valued, even if you don’t want to. Trust that you’re making space for growth and something more beautiful.

We aren’t meant to stay the same. Detach with love. Keep your heart open. Rejection is redirection.

Took myself out on a date last night to reconnect.

Took myself out on a date last night to reconnect. A super random goal of mine is to hand-make all the dishes in my home. Figured it was time I start practicing. 😜

✨SURPRISE✨ My roomie @marielweber and I just

✨SURPRISE✨

My roomie @marielweber and I just launched our Vlog channel!

We both picked up our lives and left our hometowns to chase our dreams in San Diego. So clearly no better way to document the journey than weekly vlogs. 💁🏻‍♀️

Intro video up in our channel and already in the process of editing our first vlog. Link in the bio. ❤️

Something people don’t get about me: What I nee

Something people don’t get about me:

What I need more than most is time alone. Time to exist, just be on my own, and do the things that I want to do. I’m a simple human who likes simple things and I usually can’t keep up with the crazy world around me. I love with my energy and in order to show up wholeheartedly, I need time to reset.

It can be difficult for me to maintain people in my life because some view this space as disinterest or lack of effort. Sometimes I’ll try to close the gap in hopes to bypass them leaving or mend what I “broke”. This usually results with me losing myself in the process.

I’m learning that some people get it and some people don’t. Adjusting any part of me for someone else doesn’t serve anyone. Honoring my needs is how I show up as my best self for the ones that I love. I’m learning to stand in my truth.

voted “most likely to run away with you” 🌙

voted “most likely to run away with you” 🌙

Launching something amazing this weekend with this

Launching something amazing this weekend with this one. Check the stories for info 👀✨

I’ve been feeling very nostalgic this week. It w

I’ve been feeling very nostalgic this week. It was around this time last year that I decided to change my life, pack whatever could fit into my car, and drive across the country to start my life over.

5 years of depression, anxiety, drinking/partying, and running away from my own life had finally come to an end.

I always knew this day would come, and at the time I didn’t understand why it was taking so long. Why I was crying myself to sleep every night, why I was wallowing in my own pain, why I couldn’t just DO IT already. But now I know.

I needed to know a pain so deep that I would never want to go back. A pain that would allow me to endure the new adventure I was about to embark on. The type of pain that, no matter what, my only option was to move forward.

It hasn’t been all rainbows and butterflies, but damn has it been worth it.

It’s taken me a long time to build up my self-wo

It’s taken me a long time to build up my self-worth. Honestly it took me leaving everything I ever knew and starting over. Alone.

No more listening to others unwarranted opinions. No more judgement for what I wanted to do with my life. No more being gaslit into thinking I’m less than. No more being treated like I’m weak.

The Sioban today doesn’t ask opinions from people she doesn’t want advice from. She doesn’t feel the need to prove herself or argue her worth. She doesn’t feed into the drama or seek external validation to feel whole. She isn’t afraid to remove people who aren’t supporting her higher vision and growth.

It took me a long time to realize this: the only reason people try and tear you down is because they aren’t ready to go where you’re going.

You need to start believing that nothing is too go

You need to start believing that nothing is too good for you.

That job, that salary, that city, that house, that lifestyle, that relationship. If you want it that means it’s already inside of you.

You don’t need to reinvent your greatness, you just need to live in it.

We overestimate what we can do in a week and under

We overestimate what we can do in a week and underestimate what we can do in a year.

It’s not about achieving your goals, it’s about the systems you put in place to get there.

When chopping down a tree, it’s not the final chop that got the job done. It’s every single chop before that moment.

When you feel stagnant, trust the process. Keep at it even if nothing is shifting. One day you’ll just wake up and that mountain is moved.

What you think, you create. Our minds are insanel

What you think, you create.

Our minds are insanely powerful. We have the ability to build stories and belief systems that then affect our entire external world. Just through a single thought. So if you’re looking to drastically shift your life, your thought patterns are the FIRST STEP.

Take an inventory on your thoughts today. What are you ruminating over? How are you talking to yourself? What are you thinking and saying about others? What is your default emotion?

If majority of your thoughts are negative, judgmental, critical, or harsh, you may have the answer as to why your life isn’t moving forward in the direction you desire.

There’s no quick fix, you’re needing to reprogram YEARS of conditioning. But that’s not to say it isn’t possible.

Being aware of your thought patterns and making an active shift when you can will do wonders for your soul. ❤️

Finding peace within yourself should be your numbe

Finding peace within yourself should be your number one priority.

No one, no thing, no place can give you the happiness you’re seeking. Relying on your external world to bring you joy is unsustainable.

So take yourself out on dates. Go to the gym. Work intentionally in your career. Read. Write. Paint. Sit in the park and feel the sun on your skin. Listen to your body.

Understanding and accepting the impermanence of life can be one of the most difficult things when you’re holding onto everything around you. But it creates a priceless inner balance within yourself.

I love you. You’re doing great. ❤️

I’ve been learning and growing so much recently.

I’ve been learning and growing so much recently. Feeling grateful that I’m in a place to desire this for myself and open to all the lessons. Im genuinely proud of the person I’m becoming.

Life’s been hitting different lately. I’m acc

Life’s been hitting different lately.

I’m accepting my bad days as a part of the journey.

I’m giving myself time to rest, work, and play as I need it.

I am DOING things for myself to make me happier and more fulfilled.

I am exploring things when they set my heart on fire.

I’m becoming more of my authentic myself and showing that version to others.

I am taking action when I feel a pull.

It’s not about the big things that you do in life. It’s about all the small things you do everyday that lead to those big moments.
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Detaching gets a lot of hate, but detaching is the

Detaching gets a lot of hate, but detaching is the best thing I’ve ever done for myself.

“You don’t care about anyone or anything.”

On the contrary, I care A LOT.

We are conditioned to believe that money, material things and other people are supposed to make us happy. We spend our entire lives striving towards these goals only to discover we feel the exact same way when we achieve them. So onto the next goal we go.

I was addicted to this cycle. When something went right I held onto it, terrified of when my high would go away-because it always does. When the high went away my world fell apart, and it sent me on a new mission to find the next one.

When I began detaching my life became expansive. I stopped relying on external happiness. I was becoming content within myself, exactly where I was at the time.

We can all benefit a little more from taking ownership of our lives. No one, thing, or place is making you miserable. You are making you miserable. It’s a tough pill to swallow, and a daily practice to continue shifting back to yourself. But it is an empowering way to live.

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